Be kind to your old age

Blessed are the reading guides. What is happiness? For the elderly, peace is a blessing, health is a blessing, tranquility is a blessing, family harmony is a blessing, and happiness is a blessing. Some old comrades have worked hard for decades, but they are like’ ascetic monks’ in old age, or go to part-time jobs to earn income, fight for their lives, overwork, or work as hard as cattle..    For the rest of his life, he worked hard for his career, for his family, for his parents and for his children, and lived very hard.. Retired, the rest of the time is running out, and now we can finally relax and live for ourselves once. However, many old comrades do not feel relaxed and relaxed, but feel that their survival value and significance will be lost. The mantra is: old, no, no more fun. So he began his later life with the mentality of killing time and passing the day, and became a veritable ” sanyou” old man..     Money does not spend. Old comrades generally have some savings and relatively reliable or even expensive pensions, but they are reluctant to spend them. Live a simple and austere life. The quality of life of their own relatively light. Deteriorating food is reluctant to throw, leftovers are reluctant to pour, and children and grandchildren often wear old clothes. Some save money for their children and grandchildren while others simply hand over their pension books to their sons. A retired veteran cadre received a monthly pension of 3,388, giving each of his two sons 1,500, leaving only a fraction of the old couple’s pension.. As the saying goes, life is less than a hundred years old, and one often has a thousand-year-old worry.. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don’t be horses and oxen for them.. These old comrades say to their children and grandchildren,’ bow down and be willing to serve as a willing ox” now, only lament” the world knows that gods are good, and only their children and grandchildren can’t forget it. There are so many infatuated parents in the world who are filial to their children and grandchildren. Those who are too stingy are often people who lack self – esteem. It is not difficult for a person to respect others. The key is to respect himself. The meaning of others’ respect for you depends to some extent on whether they respect themselves or not. A person who belittles himself will not have any weight in other people’s mind.     Sick, don’t look. When I was a young man, I overdrawn my health, accumulated pains and became ill, and the latent lesions appeared in my old age.. Most old people have some chronic diseases, such as’ three highs’ and’ old people’ or soreness of waist and legs, or such and such diseases in their insides.. Like a machine, its parts are worn out, in disrepair and full of faults. Besides, when people get old, their qi and blood gradually decline and their immunity declines. As Yuan Mei, a university counselor in the Qing Dynasty, wrote, ” It’s not light to fall, but it’s cold once in a rain.”. It’s not easy to get old, but it’s easy to get sick.. ‘ In essence, the elderly have a process of going from year to year. No disease, no disease, no disease, no cure. Some old people, especially those in rural areas, think they are old and can’t live for several years, ” he said.. ‘ They identify their self-worth with aging, deny themselves, regard themselves as worthless old people, hold negative feelings for their own lives, hold pessimistic attitude towards life, and hold zero evaluation of their own survival value..     Blessed are they not. What is happiness? For the elderly, peace is a blessing, health is a blessing, tranquility is a blessing, family harmony is a blessing, and happiness is a blessing. Some old comrades have worked hard for decades, but they are like ” ascetic monks” in old age, or go to part-time jobs to earn income, fight for their lives, overwork, or work as hard as an old ox.. Only want to’ bear hardships first’, don’t want to’ enjoy happiness after’. When it is time to enjoy happiness, I do not want to rearrange my life, coordinate the rhythm, relax my mood, and make my old age healthier, fuller and more natural and unrestrained.. He did not dare to pursue happiness and happiness for his old age..     ‘ to see the sun, for all his glory, buried by the coming night. The elderly should be kind to themselves and their later years. Let oneself idle for one time and live for one time. Pursue both material satisfaction and spiritual enjoyment as long as conditions permit. Give life new value and meaning. As the song says: the most beautiful is the sunset red, warm and calm. Sunset is a late flower, sunset is an old wine, sunset is a late love, sunset is an unfinished love..[ Responsibility Editor: Light Blue Cloud[ Original ]